The suicide of Lou Tellegen


Lou Tellegen, the rise and fall of a matinee idol




By Allan R. Ellenberger


A matinee idol for almost two decades, a romantic actor whose chief pride was his unswerving faith in himself as “the perfect lover,” both on and off the stage and screen, Lou Tellegen is probably best remembered as the untried and unheard of youth chosen by Sarah Bernhardt as her leading man on her last two American tours. He was also known for his marriage to Geraldine Farrar, a union which ended in a bitter divorce. Tellegen became one of the theatre’s legendary figures.


His career was tumultuous throughout most of his life. Born in the south of Holland on November 26, 1883, the son of Bernard and Maria Von Dammeler, Tellegen was christened Isidor Bernard Von Dammeler. He made his stage debut at the age of 5 under the guidance of his mother, who was a dancer of great beauty.


Ten years later, motivated partly by the desire to travel which never left him and partly by a family quarrel, young Tellegen ran away from home. His journeys took him through many countries and eventually to jail in Moscow. Upon his release he returned home to find that his father, a supposedly rich man, had died and disinherited him.


He travelled to Paris, where he found whatever job he could. At different times he was a baker’s apprentice, a trapeze artist, a pugilist and a hack driver. At one point he became acquainted with the sculptor, August Rodin, who induced him to become a model because of his Grecian features and his Hellenic physique. During his stay at Rodin’s studio in Meudon, near Paris, he posed for “Eternal Springtime,” the original which is now in the Metropolitan Museum. It was during this time that he married his first wife, Countess Jeanne de Broncken.


He soon began a series of travels which took him to Egypt and Africa and finally to South America. Upon his return to Paris he was taken in the Sarah Bernhardt troupe just as it was leaving for the United States in 1910. Bernhardt was pleased by the handsome youth and took the trouble to give him acting lessons. He learned his roles on the boat which brought the troupe to America.


His first appearance was in Chicago as Raymond, opposite Bernhardt in Madame X. The second night after the play opened his name was placed in lights beside that of the star, and from that moment on, his future was assured. Later he starred in Sister Beatrice, Sapho, Camille, Jean Marie and other plays. At the time she was nearly 70 years old and he was not yet 30.



His first New York appearance was not with Bernhardt, but as the leading man in Maria Rosa with Dorothy Donnelly. He became an overnight matinee idol and was flooded with “mash” notes and besieged by interviewers.


After his last tour with Bernhardt, Tellegen made the decision to stay in the United States. He appeared in scores of plays and was most popular during the late teens and the early Twenties and was quick to make the most of it. It was also expected that motion pictures would knock on his door. Nearly all of the last fifteen years of his life were divided between Hollywood and New York.



Geraldine Farrar and Lou Tellegen 



On February 9, 1916, Tellegen married Geraldine Farrar, the Metropolitan prima dona. In August 1921, after they had lived apart for some time, Tellegen entered a suit for separation in Westchester County. Farrar retaliated by suing for divorce in New York county. A decree was granted to her two years later.


He was the leading man, and co-author with Willard Mack, of Blind Youth, a play produced in New York in 1918. His second venture, and a far less auspicious one, was a book of reminiscences, “Women Have Been Kind,” published in 1931. The book named names and places and raised a storm of condemnation.


Close friends said that besides waning fame, and illness, which had made it impossible for him to carry out several of the infrequent engagements offered to him during the last few years, had completely broken his spirit. In his last years he had found little work on stage or the screen. In 1928, when his name was becoming less prominent, he was forced into bankruptcy. That same year his third wife, Nina Romano divorced him and obtained custody of their child, Rex, who at the time was four years of age.


On Christmas Day, 1929, while he was in the try-out of Escapade in Atlantic City, he fell asleep in his hotel room with a lighted cigarette in his mouth and was severely burned. He was in a hospital nearly three months while the play, its titled changed to Gala Night, went to New York and opened without him. It closed before he could rejoin the cast.


In 1930, at Asbury Park, Tellegen married Eve Cassanova. A year later the actor underwent a facelift in the hope of regaining his screen popularity. A few months afterward, his ex-wife obtained a default judgment for more than $12,000 against him claiming that he had failed to pay $100 weekly for the support of their son. Tellegen did not answer her suit.


Several months before his death it appeared that he might stage a comeback on the screen with the film Caravan (1934), but an illness of six weeks in the hospital lost him the part. Tellegen’s last stage appearance was in a minor part in The Lady Refuses in New York in 1933. His final screen role was in Together We Live (1935). When he walked on the set, a newer actor inquired: “Who is the new character actor?”


“Why, that’s Lou Tellegen, once the husband of Geraldine Farrar,” another replied.


Tellegen soon became obsessed that he was losing him mind. He brooded over that. His friends said he had been morose and downcast. Within the previous year he had undergone three major operations. His physician said Tellegen never knew that he had incurable cancer.


Tellegen had become friends with Mrs. Jack Cudahy, the widow of the meat packing heir whose mansion at 1844 N. Vine Street, was just south of Franklin. Tellegen was broke and Mrs. Cudahy allowed him to use one of her rooms. While he was ill, Tellegen expressed his last wish to Mrs. Cudahy. “He told me,” she later said, “that if he should die, he wanted his body cremated and the ashes scattered over the sea that in its restlessness was like his own troubled life.”


On October 29, 1934, Tellegen arose and seemed depressed according to Cudahy’s maid. “He refused his breakfast,” the maid said. Worried, Mrs. Cudahy went to his room to ask if he was ill. She received no response. Then she heard a movement in the bathroom, and asked if he was there. A weak voice replied in the affirmative. She summoned her butler and together they forced open the door. Tellegen collapsed at their feet. “He’s hurt, call a doctor,” Mrs. Cudahy cried.


The butler dashed across the street to a clinic, and brought a doctor, however Tellegen was unable to speak, breathing his last. Mrs. Cudahy added that she had been unable to get any word from him. He died in her arms on the floor of his room.


The police determined that Tellegen had stood before a mirror in his bathroom, shaved and powdered his face, then stabbed himself in the chest seven times with a pair of scissors, the ordinary kind found in sewing cabinets. A final plunge found his heart, and life ebbed slowing from his wounds. How he managed to repeatedly stab himself while in such a weakened condition, and bear the pain of thrust after thrust, mystified police. The autopsy disclosed that two of those stabs penetrated the heart.


Though Tellegen died in comparative poverty, several of his friends guaranteed that he would be given a burial to befit his position in the theatrical world. Mrs. Cudahy assured that Tellegen would receive a suitable burial. Norman Kerry and Willard Mack, also close friends, gave assurances that his last wishes would be carried out.


In New York, when Geraldine Farrar was told of her ex-husband’s death, she  told reporters: “Why should that interest me?” she snapped. “It doesn’t interest me in the least.”


Eve Casanova, his current wife and from whom friends say he was never divorced, referred them to “a cousin in Los Angeles” when she was wired regarding disposition of the body. Notwithstanding, when the “cousin” could not be located, no further word was heard from her.


Meanwhile, Tellegen’s body lay forgotten in the county morgue although friends still promised that a proper burial would be provided. No definite date was set for the funeral as they awaited word from his wife, in the belief she might express some wish as to the disposal of the body.


Finally, word arrived from Leonia, New Jersey from Casanova saying she was “horribly, horribly shocked” by her husband’s death. “I will not go to Los Angeles for the funeral,” she said, “however, you see, I am supposed to start rehearsals for a play. A-Hunting We Will Go, and I know Lou would want me to stay here and stick it out.”  


She said that in his last letter to her, Tellegen wrote: “I am doomed, for my illness is affecting my mind.” The actress said that he was suffering from cancer, which he thought was only a tumor and that if he had known the truth he would have ended his life sooner.  While his death came as a shock, she said that she was “not surprised.”


It was felt that an unintentionally misconstrued remark may have been the indirect cause of Tellegen’s suicide. A few months earlier, Tellegen was invited to a small party. While he was out of the room for a moment once of the men said:


“He is just a ‘has-been.’ He should realize his position and try to make his career over as a character actor. Some of the best character players in the movies are men who, when they realized they were no longer handsome, made the best of it. And the best is a fine character actor.”


One of the women, who had heard only the first part of the statement and that incorrectly, rushed to tell Tellegen that he had been called a “ham actor.” Tellegen flushed and responded: “I guess that’s right. I am just a ham actor.” Months later, seriously ill and delirious in a hospital, Tellegen insisted he was a “ham actor” and a “failure.”


Mrs. Cudahy received permission from his widow to continue with plans for the funeral to be held at the Edwards Brothers Chapel, 1000 Venice Boulevard (razed). One of the mourners was Countess Danneskjold, known on the screen as Nina Romano, the third of Tellegen’s four wives and mother of his son. Entering the chapel on the arm of her husband, the Countess listened as Rev. Arthur Wurtell, of St. Thomas’s Episcopal Church, read the funeral eulogy. They left without waiting to view the body.


First to arrive at the chapel was Mrs. Jack Cudahy. Other friends of Tellegen’s later years who attended the funeral service were Norman Kerry, Julian Eltinge and George Calliga; Clifford Gray, composer; Harry Weber, agent, and Michael Cudahy, son of Mrs. Cudahy. These six acted as pallbearers. Willard Mack, who himself would die of a heart attack only three weeks later,  visited the chapel earlier in the day, as did several others from the Hollywood film community.


The service was simple but impressive. Ivan Edwards, the chapel soloist, sang “In the Garden” and “Lead Kindly Light.” Rev. Wurtell read the eulogy and offered a brief prayer. The chapel organ played softly as the small group of mourners filed by the flower-banked bier.


Tellegen’s body was cremated, and his ashes were strewn over the Pacific Ocean.





Above is an illustration of the Cudahy mansion which was located at 1844 N. Vine Street, between Franklin and Yucca Streets in Hollywood. It was here that Lou Tellegen committed suicide.




 Above is the same place as it looks today.



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18 Responses to “The suicide of Lou Tellegen”

  1. That’s a different Cudahy mansion from the one at 7269 Hollywood Blvd. where Norma Talmadge lived in the late 20s? Didn’t one of the Cudahy’s also commit suicide?


    I remember reading that when his book came out a wag replied “Women have been kind … of stupid.” Tellegen is very handsome but onscreen he does give the impression of a rather dim bulb. Pauline Frederick liked him, though (she was married to Willard Mack, who was a major mess himself). She reported that on the set of their film “Let Not Man Put Asunder” he took her aside and asked her what ” a sunder” was. Of course English was not his first language (i haven’t seen him in a talkie yet, so i don’t know if he had an accent). I believe that Marian Blackton Trimble liked him too. Gerry, of course, hated him until the end.

  2. Melissa says:

    I’ve had an avid interest in Lou Tellegen for decades and I so appreciate this most excellent of articles you’ve written. The photographs are splendid, as are the details you’ve taken the time to verify. I knew Mr. Tellegen was scattered, but it still doesn’t stop me from wishing he was interred at H4E. *Sigh.* At any rate, thank you once again for a tale well told.

    Quick question: Is the Cudahy(s) buried at Calvary related to Edna? For some reason, I keep thinking I found Michael or John but I could be hallucinating. =:o

    PS As John (aka Jack) was a suicide, chances are he probably isn’t at Calvary. I don’t subscribe to the LA Times newspaper archives, but I did find the headline of an article stating that a permit for burial was issued at Calvary for Jack. As I am beginning to ramble, I shall now take my leave.


  3. His life and career should be a book!!

  4. David Menefee says:

    Author David W. Menefee plans to publish The Rise and Fall of Lou-Tellegen in the late summer 2011. Watch for details and publication date.

  5. JackTF says:

    Thank you, Allan, for another interesting and detailed piece on a long-forgotten Hollywood personality. Your readers – and Hollywood itself – are to be forever in your debt!

  6. Lynn L. says:

    Thank you as always, Allan, for a superb profile. ☺

  7. Phillip says:

    I agree, his story would make a great book. Fascinating post!

  8. Harry Martin says:

    Just fascinating and my goodness, what a looker!

  9. Kim Inboden says:

    This article is why make it a point to read this site. You won’t find detailed information on the Hollywood of yesteryear anywhere else on the web. Keep it up Allan!

  10. Thanks David….hopefully alot of pictures will be in it!!

  11. Dianne Foster says:

    A little Ayn Rand backstory maybe: his third wife was Countess Danneskjold. The minute I saw the picture of this guy I thought of Ayn Rand’s silent film actor husband, Frank O’Connor, who had the same type of look. I’ll bet Rand saw him (Lou) too, when she worked for DeMille, or heard the sad story of his demise. And her tribute to his memory appears in Atlas Shrugged, almost certainly: the pirate Ragnar Danneskjold (although it was the title of his third wife and not his actual name). So the novel had something of her memories from the early Hollywood days.

  12. Rainer Hoppe says:

    In this article are a lot of inaccuracies (probably coming from Tellegen’s own memoires).
    About his family I can tell the following:
    Lou Tellegen was of Dutch descent.
    He was born at Sint-Oedenrode (province Noord-Brabant) 26-11-1881 as an illegitimate child of Anna Maria van Dommelen.
    He received the christian names Isidore Louis Bernard Edmon (same as his father Tellegen) and his mother’s family name ‘van Dommelen’.
    His parents were not married, because his father (1836-1902), a second lieutenant of the Dutch West-Indian army, was already married to another lady (there was no divorce, decree of separation 06-06-1882, from this marriage 3 daughters).
    The first wife of Lou Tellegen was Jeanne de Brouckère (Belgian, not a Countess).

    Rainer Hoppe

  13. Ken A. says:

    Does anyone know what happened to his son Rex?

  14. Sara Henderson says:

    All I can add is: if there is ever a movie made about his life, Matthew McConaughey should play Lou! There is a huge resemblance in my opinion.

  15. dennis says:

    lou claimed to have posed for Rodin’s sculpture Eternal Spring however when the museum says it was posed for rules out this false claim

  16. Susan Smit says:

    Hi Allan,
    I’m a Dutch writer of historical novels and my next book will be about Lou-Tellegen en Geraldine Farrar. During research I found this fascinating article. Is it possible to e-mail you in person?
    Thanks in advance,
    Susan Smit

  17. bert de graaf says:

    I comming from Sint Oedenrode and I going to write an article about him, I looking for al kind og items

    thank you

  18. Maureen Bleeker-Turner says:

    I am reading Susan Smit’s book about Lou Tellegen and Geraldine Ferrar at the moment and it is fascinating and sad at the same time.

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